Find out how to be Loyal
Loyalty matters, above all else
In life, do you ever ponder about who’s real and fake? Do you ever wonder if that person smiling at you has a good thought about you? Or do you ever sit back and think about all the friends you have in life, thinking that they are fundamental to you in your face, but once you’re gone, do you ever wonder if they’re natural to you behind your back? I understand it is against the friendship code when friends test each other’s depth of loyalty. But sometimes, pushing each other’s commitment isn’t a bad idea, because thig day in age, you have no other options because belief is very rare. There are currently many things that can happen between friends, family members, or business partners, and when we share a secret with friends about personal stories, we trust them and expect them to keep our secrets.
That’s not all – you might get a lot of people who would be appreciating you and saying good things about you when you’re present. However, you would not get a lot of people who would stay loyal behind your back. So it is crucial to comprehend that not everyone is genuine, and people might also say a lot of things while you’re there to impress you or make sure that you like them.
“It’s not about who’s real to your face; It’s about who stays loyal behind your back.”
On the contrary, the natural face of an individual comes out only when that person is loyal at your back too. It doesn’t cost your friends to say good things on your face and then starts participating in gossips about you as soon as you turn back. There are only a few people who have the guts to acknowledge things as they are complete.
Only a few people are potent enough to accept you as you are and then talk the same when you have turned your back. They are the ones who love and care for you. Unfortunately, in this world, it is hard to find people who aren’t masked up. The world is full of fake people, making it difficult to find someone who’ll have your back and will love you the same way – and offer a reciprocated love.
I know it isn’t easy to find someone who will be loyal and honest with you and what we imagine it to be. I understand that it is scarce to do that, but we will know, and our gut instincts will tell every one of us to let go or let the friendship build up and blossom for life.
Having someone loyal to you and having your back when it seems no one else does is a beautiful gift from God. Do not abuse it, and if you find yourself surrounded by people who love you, don’t abuse the opportunity. But remember, it’s not about who’s real to your face; It’s about who stays loyal behind your back
