Find Out How to Know your worth
Know your worth!
Understanding who you are and knowing your self-worth is personal, and it has nothing to do with anyone else. Self-worth is your internal measure of how much you value yourself regardless of what others think about you or say to you.
I love to see people have a strong sense of self–worth. These are people who aren’t scared to say “no,” especially to things they aren’t comfortable with. They also don’t allow others to dictate or cloud their judgment. But don’t get it wrong; no one is trying to exalt self-absorption or narcissism. However, I believe having a healthy sense of self-worth is of utmost importance. Realize your capabilities, intentions, and values.
When you can genuinely recognize what you indeed are and all that you’ve got to offer, your confidence will automatically skyrocket. You will care less about the thoughts of others about you, let alone wanting to impress them. If you can believe, love, and trust yourself, the little things people do or say won’t get to you.
A person who doesn’t see you for who you are, all the good qualities you bring to the table, and all you have to offer aren’t worth it – you shouldn’t keep such persons around. What you have to do is focus on those who love you, those who want you to succeed, and care about you. Forget about those who see you as less of a being; they don’t deserve all that you are.
You need not be scared for who you are and learn to let go of things dragging you down. And if you’re constantly living your life to please someone else – or you’re the type that makes sure others are always happy, you won’t last long to see the reward of your hard work. Then, you won’t have anything left to call your own. So, learn to focus on yourself; do things that’ll make you happy.
“First, know your WORTH. second, CONTROL your –
– emotions. Third, NEVER settle.”
Think of how you can best spend your time. Remember, you are who you are, and that’s a beautiful thing to do. It is paramount not to base your self-worth on the standard set by others or the societal norms you’ve found yourself. After all, no one knows you better than you. I understand it is easier said than done, but the reward is significant at the end of it all.
Know your worth so that people will treat you the way you want to be treated
This is important in how we relate to people daily, especially in our love life and workplaces. So, stop settling – yes, you! Don’t get it wrong; it doesn’t all start with you because there are some horrible people out there that’ll never see your self-worth for what it is, and they’ll constantly treat you wrong and unfairly. But there lies the catch: self–worth is self–respect, which then leads to stronger self-esteem. Having stronger self-esteem will allow you to identify those awful beings who try to tear you down.
