How can you survive without anyone else?
When you learn to survive without anyone, you can stay anything.
The fact is the world we live in exists in the realm of another sad reality. We are al0one in this world, and anyone who tells you otherwise is masking the truth or is just ignorant – too ignorant to know what they are saying. You are the only person that you ought to rely on. You may think that you have friends and family members who show up when you are in need. This may be factual, but it doesn’t change the fact that when push comes to shove, and the end seems to be nigh, you are alone. As the saying goes, we went to this world alone, and alone shall we depart.
The sooner you accept the statement, the sooner you can begin to rely solely on yourself. Leaning to survive alone is key to your survival in this world right now. Friends are essential in our lives, especially if we have the ones that truly love us. If you were to say that your friends would be there for you if you call them, then I’d believe you. However, if you were to say that your friends will constantly stay with you and would also sacrifice anything for you, then I’d ask you if you were joking.
We all are humans – and it’s in our nature to let the people we love down, not because we want to, but because some things are just beyond our control. So sooner or later, your friends will let you down – no matter how close you are. That’s human nature – After all, we all make mistakes.
Even if your loved ones always have your back and support you, you should note that they have lives of their own. You may be besties right now and may remain so for a very long time. But one of you is to start a family and drift from the relationship. So even if you still keep in touch, you’ll no longer be as important to them as their family members. That’s what it comes down to – how crucial you possibly be to other people.
The reason why human beings are unreliable is that we are selfish beings. We are the center of it. All the things we know involve our existence. As a result, our mental features are focused majorly on us, putting us ahead of others. That is not to say that we can put someone else ahead of ourselves – but to do so, we’ll have to focus more and do so with the right intent.
Learning to stand alone will make it easier to survive when things go south, and there’s no one to help; it could mean a matter of life and death, of your not of your sanity than of your body. Remember, this isn’t to say that we shouldn’t ask for help – we should if and when possible. But we must be able to take on our burden if that’s the only solution. In short, when you learn to survive without anyone, you can stay anything. Cheers!
